decodeyou

decodeyou is a psychology-informed AI tool designed to help you understand behaviors and emotional patterns in relationships.

You can paste a conversation or describe a recent situation, and decodeyou will help you see the emotional responses, interaction patterns, and possible psychological drivers — in both yourself and the other person.

By taking into account different relationship stages — from early dating and romantic relationships to long-term partnerships, and even interactions after separation — decodeyou offers response directions that are better suited to the current context.

The goal is to help you respond with greater clarity, emotional steadiness, and a more grounded sense of self.

decodeyou’s insights are grounded in established psychological frameworks, including attachment theory, emotional regulation, and relationship interaction models.

Rather than focusing on “right or wrong” or providing fixed answers, it aims to illuminate how people develop specific emotional reactions and connection patterns based on past experiences. In addition, decodeyou offers attachment-style assessments to help you better understand your own relational tendencies and emotional needs — so you can communicate more consciously and make choices that align with what you genuinely feel and value. This isn’t therapy, and it doesn’t generate scripts. It’s a way to pause before you reply — and better understand yourself and the relationship you’re in.